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Nearly a Month

April 16, 2019April 15, 2019 ~ Mamautistic ~ Leave a comment

I'm still untangling some things, working through some others. My words come and go. April is always a bit rough for awareness reasons. But this April I'm figuring things out, untangling my life. I'm reading so many great books that I need to write reviews for very soon! My interests, family, and friends are constant … Continue reading Nearly a Month

Thank You for Everything

March 18, 2019March 18, 2019 ~ Mamautistic ~ 4 Comments

Thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone who kept me on this plane of existence over the last few months. You ALL are priceless to me ❤ Some of you don't even know I exist (Sarah Kendzior and Andrea Chalupa, whose podcast Gaslit Nation helped me initially realize that I had been gaslit all … Continue reading Thank You for Everything

Broken But Building Back

January 5, 2019January 5, 2019 ~ Mamautistic ~ 2 Comments

My words are starting to return a little bit. It's been months. Goodness only knows how long it'll take for them to be back to any kind of "normal" (for me) level. I think I wrote the quoted bit below about being wordless around a week ago. ____________________________ It's funny how wonky time goes. Buried, … Continue reading Broken But Building Back

Internalized Ableism, Others, and Reassurances

November 17, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ 15 Comments

Honestly, I've not given all that much thought to internalized ableism. I've read about it, yes. I've even written a little bit about it, but it has never topped my list of "things I need to personally work on." Until now. It has, rather abruptly, come to my attention that I have internalized way more … Continue reading Internalized Ableism, Others, and Reassurances

Just Do It! Or Not.

October 5, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ Leave a comment

There's a lot of motivational speak out there that encourages just doing the thing (usually it's the exercise-related ones I see most often) if you don't want to. Generally speaking, that's probably good advice. I don't often want to do various things around the house or to take care of myself, but life is generally … Continue reading Just Do It! Or Not.

How (Not) to Disappear

June 12, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ Leave a comment

Disappearing is a word that is used, primarily by my local circle of friends, to describe when one of us stops communicating for a while and stops visiting social media either mostly or completely. We've all done it from time to time, some more than others and each to varying degrees. So what does this … Continue reading How (Not) to Disappear

Communication is Hard

May 31, 2018June 2, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ 3 Comments

In going through my saved links recently for a different post, I came across this post from Cynthia Kim --Echolalia and Scripting: Straddling the Border of Functional Language. I've read it before, of course, that's why it's in my saved links; but today this quote from it felt really familiar. It describes a recent experience … Continue reading Communication is Hard

Emotional Containment Failure

April 17, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ 2 Comments

I usually can't name my emotions. This is not an optimal thing, of course, because emotions can affect all kinds of things and it's difficult to control or understand such things when I'm unaware of what they even are. So I somehow developed a containment system over the years. I have this ability to lock … Continue reading Emotional Containment Failure

Talking to Strangers

February 28, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ 8 Comments

It's almost always easier for me to talk to strangers than to people I know well unless the person I know well is also Autistic. It's an act of self-care for me to socialize (or not) in ways that are comfortable to me whenever possible. Talking to strangers instead of people I know well can … Continue reading Talking to Strangers

Accomodation, Assumption, & Presumption

February 21, 2018 ~ Mamautistic ~ 7 Comments

I want to write about how arrogant it is to assume that one knows what another person intends better than that other person does. Quick note: I'm not talking about intuition or situations of abuse. If your intuition is telling you that someone is not a good person for you to be around then you … Continue reading Accomodation, Assumption, & Presumption

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Rebelling against a culture that values assimilation over individuality.

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the day to day life of an autistic woman

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life through one female Asperger's lens

The Misadventures of Mama Pineapple

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Yes, That Too

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one woman's thoughts about life on the spectrum

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